Self-observations – spot-on.world

1. I take immediate action.

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2. I let the other person finish speaking.

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3. I act rather than reflect.

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4. I trust that everything will work out in the end.

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5. I put myself in the other person's shoes.

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6. I stay on topic.

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7. I clearly state what I want.

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8. I communicate rationally (rather than emotionally).

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9. I talk about the future (rather than the topic at hand).

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10. I appear calm, even when I'm not inside.

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11. I reflect during this 'frustrating' moment.

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12. I am determined and persistent.

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13. I jump into action, even when I know it's better to wait.

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14. I adapt my vision of the future.

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15. I postpone, although I know I should act now.

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16. I strongly state the problem I have.

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17. I clearly communicate my opinion.

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18. I keep focusing on the longer run.

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19. I state my opinion clearly to maintain connection.

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20. I consider the other's opinion more important than my own.

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21. I escalate the tension while actually I want connection.

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22. I am solving the problem immediately.

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23. I pretend to be affected while actually I'm not.

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24. I strongly communicate my own arguments.

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25. I ask questions out of genuine curiosity about the other person.

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26. I seek a collaborative approach.

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27. I ask questions to persuade the other person.

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28. I completely withdraw or shut down.

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29. I follow my intuition in that moment.

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30. I act energetically although I'm feeling tired.

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